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A white girl wore a bindi at Coachella. And, then my social media feeds went berserk. Hashtagging the term “cultural appropriation” follows the outrage and seems to justify it at the same time. Except that it doesn’t.

Cultural appropriation is the adoption of a specific part of one culture by another cultural group. As I (an Indian) sit here, eating my sushi dinner (Japanese) and drinking tea (Chinese), wearing denim jeans (American), and overhearing Brahm’s Lullaby (German) from the baby’s room, I can’t help but think what’s the big deal?

The big deal with cultural appropriation is when the new adoption is void of the significance that it was supposed to have — it strips the religious, historical and cultural context of something and makes it mass-marketable. That’s pretty offensive. The truth is, I wouldn’t be on this side of the debate if we were talking about Native American headdresses, or tattoos of Polynesian tribal iconography, Chinese characters or Celtic bands.

Why shouldn’t the bindi warrant the same kind of response as the other cultural symbols I’ve listed, you ask? Because most South Asians won’t be able to tell you the religious significance of a bindi. Of my informal survey of 50 Hindu women, not one could accurately explain it’s history, religious or spiritual significance. I had to Google it myself, and I’ve been wearing one since before I could walk.

We can’t accuse non-Hindus of turning the bindi into a fashion accessory with little religious meaning because, well, we’ve already done that. We did it long before Vanessa Hudgens in Coachella 2014, long before Selena Gomez at the MTV Awards in 2013, and even before Gwen Stefani in the mid-90s.

Indian statesman Rajan Zed justifies the opposing view as he explains, “[The bindi] is an auspicious religious and spiritual symbol… It is not meant to be thrown around loosely for seductive effects or as a fashion accessory…” If us Indians had preserved the sanctity and holiness of the bindi, Zed’s argument for cultural appropriation would have been airtight. But, the reality is, we haven’t.

The 5,000 year old tradition of adorning my forehead with kumkum just doesn’t seem to align with the current bindi collection in my dresser — the 10-pack, crystal-encrusted, multi-colored stick-on bindis that have been designed to perfectly compliment my outfit. I didn’t happen to pick up these modern-day bindis at a hyper-hipster spot near my new home in California. No. This lot was brought from the motherland itself.

And, that’s just it. Culture evolves. Indians appreciated the beauty of a bindi and brought it into the world of fashion several decades ago. The single red dot that once was, transformed into a multitude of colors and shapes embellished with all the glitz and glamor that is inherent in Bollywood. I don’t recall an uproar when Indian actress Madhuri Dixit’s bindi was no longer a traditional one. Hindus accepted the evolution of this cultural symbol then. And, as the bindi makes it’s way to the foreheads of non-South Asians, we should accept — even celebrate — the continued evolution of this cultural symbol. Not only has it managed to transcend religion and class in a sea of one-billion brown faces, it will now adorn the faces of many more races. And that’s nothing short of amazing.

So, you won’t find this Hindu posting a flaming tweet accusing a white girl of #culturalappropriation. I will say that I’m glad you find this aspect of my culture beautiful. I do too.

Why a Bindi Is NOT an Example of Culture Appropriation 

by Anjali Joshi

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Anonymous asked: yo I hope you feel better soon because being sick is shit so yeah <33333

Thank you, being sick really does suck! To hell with whatever I had planned for today, I need to stay in bed and drink like, two drops of water every minute, because anything more makes me throw up again!
Thanks for the get well wishes, it’s very appreciated *-*

eyyyyy throwing up all night isn’t fun. I wish i could manage to sleep for longer than an hour at a time before getting sick again wow disgusting. (I didn’t drink, i just caught something and it’s violent gross)

Can i just not be sick for the rest of the year? thanks. looks like i’m not going to get any sleep in tonight, sighs

Yo! Just saying, I don’t really appreciate you reblogging this and removing my commentary. It contained extremely important pointers for people unfamiliar with chronic diseases, as well as for people suffering from one or many, like the link to the Spoon Theory.

It’s cool and all if you knew about the Spoon Theory yourself, but next time, don’t just go with pretty graphics and remove the ending and explanation that ties everything up together! A LOT of people are clueless about chronic diseases as well as the Spoon Theory, I’d really, really appreciate it if you’d keep the information complete rather than just the eyecatchy part.



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I MIGHT HAVE FAILED AT SOMETHING. Why did I not see the psa for this, i need to do it

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(i got this before i posted the pictures, and it KINDA PROMPTED ME TO POST THEM IN A WAY??)

Thank you, you’re the absolute cutest and kindest person ever ;w; I feel so undeserving of such compliments, but if you feel they’re accurate, thank you so muuuch!

Hair talk!! AGAIN

Ok my hair’s in dire need of recoloration bc my roots are ginormous BUT. I curled them overnight this time (and de-curled them a tad in the morning) and I like it a lot oh gosh.

Bear w/ my no makeup face, it’s sunday and I’m super tired.

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Of course you may! <3


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